Meeting the one… Ha Ha Ha!!!

I think life should give you a number and give the same number to your soulmate! That
would be so much easier to find each other! I guess god thought it would be more entertaining to let us wonder and try the ones over and over again! Today I want to talk about the ups and downs of being single after more than a decate! First I am mid thirties so
the pool of available candidates is separate in groups: Group 1: They have kids and are separate, they are looking for the ones and have high expectation; you never know if they
are fully ready or still not over their previous relationship, Group 2: they have being very
active on the love market and just realized that the time is going by; they are in mode I need
a wife and as many children as possible! Group 3: They just came out of a long term
relationship and are in their midlife crisis; they want to feel young and are looking for
someone or many someones to make them feel young again (Him) Group 4: They are still
teenagers at heart, no steady jobs, and are very much attract by women that have it all
together; looking for a sugar mommy! Group 5: One night it’s you and one night’s its her type
of guy. They need sex, bottom line they will tell you what you need to hear and get you
where they want you to be.
Well I am sure there is a few candidates that are not in any of these categories but i haven’t
met them yet! Based on my many dates and online exchanges here is why these groups do
not work with what I am looking for. Group 1: this is what I am looking for minus the “I miss
my wife’’. I have enough trouble getting over my own break up I can’t deal with someone
else! And this is a real turn off on a date if he talks about his ex-wife.
Group 2: I was a wife and loved it. I had kids and I loved them more than anything; but I won’t have anymore, I am pass this stage. So this just take off a huge part of the market!
Group 3: Obviosuly I am not looking to get with someone like Him! Lol I had a guy once sending me messages and then sending me a random message. I quickly discover that he
thought I was someone else; he got messed up between his dates!! This type of guy will also send picture of his private and talk about himself with lot of pride. They are often the most insecure; I don’t need someone that is looking for himself… I am just getting to know myself!
Group 5: I lost lot of self confidence in my breakup but something I am pretty sure is that I
don’t need practice, I am pretty good at it! And the thought of someone that was sexually
active with tons of partner is discusting to me; is he clean???
Now that you know some of my expenrience on dating site you will be surprise to know that I
know my right guy is there; I still believe in love and everyday I am getting closer. If you use
online dating and get discourage don’t! See it as you are reducing the pool until you find the
good one! Online has to be taken with a little bit of humour and lot of patience!
Cheers to my date to come…. Wish me luck!